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Thank you thank you thank you!!!! This is one of the most relatable pieces I have ever read on living/training with this condition. Infact, I have tears in my eyes because it is the first piece that resonates so strongly. I could have written this myself! I have spent near to 40 years trying to find what works for me and I’ve been doing it alone, because clinicians were not interested or willing to believe I was doing all they instructed, but it was not working. So I stopped asking. I stopped asking because their responses were destroying my mental health. To this day I am reluctant to seek support because of past experience This is such important work and I implore medical people to take us seriously, to believe us, to truly listen. Not for me, but for the young ladies who come after me, so that they don’t need to go through the isolation, misunderstanding, misdiagnosis, dismissiveness. Living with this condition and trying to find guidance and support feels truly like trying to find the exit in a maze with a blindfold on. I truly feel the psychological impact this condition has is as devastating as the physical impact it has. It would be amazing to see similar work on the mental anguish many of us live with due to dealing with a medical condition society does not recognize and medical professionals dismiss. Again, thank you for this work.

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This is so thorough. Thank you. I am walking 4-6 times a week and want to move to 2 lots of strength work as well add was unsure on light weights more reps or heavy weights less reps, and have realised it doesn't matter. I haven't been to the gym for 2.5 decades because I lost hope. Train hard enough for a less mills body, implied I wasn't training hard enough, I was lazy. I gained muscle but still felt I had fat on top of it - despite diet and doing more cardio - all weight training I felt did was add bulk, especially in arms. I also find the heart rate thing a fob off. Train in zone 2 - well I'm in zone 3 walking up hills and still talking so ??? Now I just walk - whatever. Movement is movement.

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